list the side-characters in narcissism... 8:30amThe term "side-characters in narcissism" isn't a formal psychological concept, but it often refers to the roles people play in the life of someone with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) or strong narcissistic traits. These roles are sometimes described in pop psychology or self-help contexts. Here are some common "side-character" roles or dynamics associated with narcissistic relationships:

1. The Enabler

Role: Supports, justifies, or covers up the narcissist's behavior, often to avoid conflict or maintain peace.
Example: A parent who excuses their child's manipulative actions, or a partner who makes excuses for their spouse's mistreatment of others.

2. The Flying Monkey

Role: Acts as an extension of the narcissist, often spreading gossip, defending them, or carrying out their bidding.
Example: A friend who relays the narcissist's insults or lies to others, or a coworker who helps the narcissist undermine a colleague.

3. The Scapegoat

Role: The person blamed for everything, often bearing the brunt of the narcissist's anger, criticism, or manipulation.
Example: A sibling or child who is constantly criticized or held responsible for family problems.

4. The Golden Child

Role: The favored person in the narcissist's life, often idealized and put on a pedestal—until they disappoint the narcissist.
Example: A child or partner who is praised excessively, but only as long as they meet the narcissist's expectations.

5. The Supply

Role: Provides the narcissist with attention, admiration, or validation (also called "narcissistic supply").
Example: A new romantic partner, a fan, or a friend who constantly praises the narcissist.

6. The Empath

Role: A highly empathetic person who is often targeted by narcissists for their kindness, compassion, and willingness to give.
Example: A partner or friend who is emotionally drained by the narcissist's demands and manipulations.

7. The Gray Rock

Role: Someone who intentionally becomes boring or unreactive to avoid engaging with the narcissist's drama or manipulation.
Example: A coworker or family member who refuses to react to the narcissist's provocations.

8. The Discard

Role: Someone the narcissist has devalued and abandoned, often after using them for supply or other needs.
Example: An ex-partner or friend who is suddenly ignored or smeared after the relationship ends.


Why These Roles Matter
These dynamics are often discussed in the context of narcissistic abuse, where the narcissist's behavior can create toxic, one-sided relationships. Recognizing these roles can help people understand their experiences and set healthier boundaries.